As we enter a new year, we often like to make some changes, or to set new goals for ourselves. Some common New Year resolutions include: more exercise, more saving or less spending, quitting smoking or drinking, more time with family, developing a new hobby, etc. Have you set any new year resolutions for yourself?
I had set some goals in daily life, spiritual life, health, studies, family or ministry. On the whole, having goals is great, and gives our lives a clear direction for growth. Paul the Apostle also had a clear goal, “but one thing I do: Forgetting what is behind and straining toward what is ahead, I press on toward the goal to win the prize for which God has called me heavenward in Christ Jesus.” (Php 3:13-14)
But how can we actually put these goals into practice? Many books or management consultants tell us to tackle big goals through small steps, which undeniably helps. However, if our goal is spiritual growth, then there are some other factors to consider.
Firstly, spiritual growth cannot be measured, because our relationship with God cannot be quantified. Attending 52 worship services a year, or 7 quiet times a week, or 1 new ministry a year can all be good things, but cannot guarantee spiritual growth, for only God can make us grow (1 Co 3:6-7; Tit 3:5). Having said that, spiritual disciplines do have their place, as they can cultivate our hearts to bear fruit someday.
Secondly, when setting growth targets, we must not always reminisce about the past. Many Christians try to rediscover their “first love” for God, or try to be as fervent as when first converted. However, spiritual life is not about repeating the past; instead, we should learn to experience and glorify God through the changes in the world, varied patterns in daily life, and through different life stages. Paul’s advice to “forgetting what is behind” is to count as loss all that he has previously considered as gains, and focus on Christ Himself (Php 3:5-8).
May your life in the new year be filled with contentment, self-worth and devoid of regrets; through which God will be glorified.
